I have 2 sisters and a brother and over the years things have happened that has caused me to not speak to my brother and then recently my sister as well. I really have nothing left to say to them but I can’t seem to shake the feeling that I am the bad guy because I am not interested in forgetting about things or letting things go. When I don’t like how a friend or anyone else does me I distance myself from them…Does this apply to family as well? Are there special rules for dealing with family? Am I allowed to write them off? Is it wrong to hate your own family members?